I posted about my “side piece” offer and the idea of it just shocks me. So why think so much about it right? I am not thinking about the offer, but thinking about me. I am thinking about all the relationships and interactions I have had with men and this just feels like the culmination of that. Ultimately, the question is would I do it? The answer is complicated. Simple, no. I know that I couldn’t and won’t do anything because I am married and love my husband. I could never do anything to hurt him like that.